How to write realistic sex scenes pt. 1. Image of man and woman kissing on a bed

How To Write Realistic Sex Scenes (pt.1)

Firstly, let’s make something clear.  This tutorial is about writing sex scenes in fiction NOT writing erotica. For those who don’t know the difference, erotica is literature written specifically to excite.  Erotica has very basic plots that are moved along with sexual acts. This tutorial is about writing sex scenes within regular fiction (leaning, as usual, more towards fantasy fiction).